Appreciate then — and “this” will matter.

Gilda Given
3 min readOct 2, 2023

Trust me, if it weren’t for then (what happened to you) this (what you are living now) wouldn’t matter. Appreciate then and this will surely matter.

Life has unique ways of teaching humans.

Yet the problem with humans is to sooo want things to be as the way they are every day. But in the end, if things are; as the way they are — every day; life will be boring or you will be pronounced dead and there will be no growth in what you are living in this world.

Pricely, I also understand that the way things are truly it wouldn’t be easier to be understood with your logical mind especially if you are in a place where they taught you so well to forget who you truly are.

But once you become a conscious being and you now know for sure that things can happen in a way that you want them to be; a whole lot might be different and things in your life will start to make a shift and you will find a breakthrough around every pattern.

You will also come to realize that if it weren’t for then; this wouldn’t matter — what you are living. What you are wearing. What you are eating. Who you are with in your life. And it’s only when you learn to appreciate then — your now moment will start to matter.

The thing with humans is that they think; ..if that didn’t happen then my life would be better. Or, if I still be with that person or living that kind of life or doing what I was doing then my life would be meaningful or I would be successful.

If you don’t know dear human; whatever things are right now ..it’s as to how you have intended them to be and life will always be supportive of you — loving and appreciating you in each step that tends to unfold.

Learn to appreciate that which you went through; that thing that broke your heart as — if it wouldn’t be for that thing this moment wouldn’t matter.

Appreciate that you passed those moments as — if it weren't for those moments this moment wouldn’t matter.

Appreciate that you went through that breakup as— if it wasn’t for that breakup you wouldn’t have met your new lover. You wouldn’t have known how independent or strong you are in loving and living your life.

Appreciate that you got fired as — if it wasn’t for that you would never understand how independent or how good you are at what you currently do.

Appreciate those haters who are everywhere as — if it weren’t for those haters or those people who always put you down you would never understand how focused and capable you are; standing for yourself, trusting yourself, and learning to live your life on your own terms not as to how everybody else is living.

It’s only because of those experiences (of which most humans call them bad) that built and made your life even more precise — more focused. It’s those moments that made you be who you truly are today.

It would be helpful if you appreciate what was then and that which you are living right now and your life will truly matter.

In the end, learn to trust in your desires and your dreams and focus on your life as that is the only thing that truly matters.

Appreciate then yet do live your life now.

Ms. Gilda :)

#thinkfit

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Gilda Given

Author | On a mission to help you live that which is true to yourself