Be Positive Toward Your Life

Gilda Given
3 min readJul 31, 2019

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“First ability to change your life is to be positive”

Positivity comes from how we think.

How we think has a tremendous effect on how we respond to different circumstances or other people behaviors in our life.

If your mind tells you to follow negativity, the effects will be seen in the outer world and same applied to positivity too.

I know we don’t have the power to control what should or shouldn’t happen in our lives, but we have full control over how we perceive, respond or react to life’s circumstances.

And the good thing is that you don’t have only full control with perceptions but you have full control to make your mind give you any situation that you want.

It is your work now to saturate it with positive thoughts, peacefully words, and experiences, then you will experience astonishing results from it.

To be positive towards your life adopt these tips and make your life better;

· “Think of the soul rather than appearance” –Wayne Dyer. There is no need to judge people with what they’re body is, what they have or do. We are all one. We all come from one source. Do not label.

· Don’t seek approval; do what is right, what you love and feels right, the right people will show up at the right time. Don’t let people squeeze you into their own perception of what you should be, do or have.

· There is no need to criticize or judge people, only observe them. You don’t deserve to live in someone’s reality, so neither the other fellow deserves to live in his/her own reality. As Mother Teresa said “If you judge people you have no time to love them”

· It is only your thinking that determines what is bad or good for you. To see good things in your life, change how you think — think good thoughts which are just and good report.

· You are born ready for everything and anything so, if you face challenge or failure or any difficult situation, just watch and observe then learn something — look up, get up and move forward. Next time ask yourself “What am I going to do differently next time?”

· “Live your life in ethics rather than rules” –Wayne Dyer. The more laws and restrictions there are, the poorer people become, said Lao Tzu.

· Always find your inner peace; pray or meditate. When you are self-fully nor people perceptions either circumstances will disrupt or annoy you.

· “Live more from wisdom rather than from information” –Wayne Dyer. Information is not power, wisdom is. We live in a world where we have every power to get anything in hand — but look, what is happening now.

· Understand this; To live is to respond rather than reacting, its to be water in any situation. In the moment of anxiety, frustration, and confusion — just take a meek breath, take a pause first and ask yourself, for whatever I am going to do, is it important?

· Choose the right friends to surround you. Like-minded people who will lift you up, those who you will learn from them. Don’t make friends without any meaningful reason.

· Get real and be real the world will treat you that way; It’s like you are telling people, this is who I am and I will appreciate if you treat me just like this. Just be, get actual with who you are and ignore those who think they know you better than you do.

· Understand that everything that happens in life comes from your thoughts or comes as a lesson; learn to direct your thoughts in a positive direction, pay attention to the life lessons and learn from them. Do not fight back.

What you have learned today, try to practice it until you become an expert at any ritual, that will make you positive all the time.

Have a marvelous day and stay positive :)

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Gilda Given
Gilda Given

Written by Gilda Given

Author | On a mission to help you live that which is true to yourself

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