Is Life Unfair?

Have you ever found yourself complaining or blaming that life isn’t fair on your side?

It might be because of the things that you faced previously or currently facing?

You know what I totally get your points and pain and maybe, let’s discuss this one in deep as the intention of writing this short read today isn’t to agree or disagree with you yet I want this article to enact that inner belief inside you so next time when you think life is somehow unfair or fair to you you know exactly which side you will belong to.

In more than a deeper understanding, I will also share and connect experiences from the place where I currently work — yeah I have a day job now.

I work in a certain hotel in Dar es Salam Tanzanian, and always it has a lot of guests coming in from all parts of the world.

Being around these kinds of environments, trust me, teaches me a lot just by seeing how differently others live their lives — and it just clarifies that I know how to study people. You get that.

Some guests are wealthy, some are in the medium economy, and some only come to explore and see what’s happening there and that means they all wonder why everything costs much to that extent — so did I? Yet, not now.

Do you know what it teaches me?

It taught me that the life that most of us live is really the creation of ourselves. We are the ones who opt and choose to have the kind of life that we are living now.

Whatever the situation is right now — it be good or bad, being rich or poor, you have played a great role in creating it! Do not blame anyone — you take responsibility. It’s your fault!

If you hate how your life is now — you need to upgrade to how you would like it to be, complaining, or blaming doesn’t help and it won’t serve a purpose either.

The other side that you do not see.

Your color isn’t a problem, money isn’t either — yet, stupidity is.

If you think it’s because you are black or your look is different than others, you might be wrong.

And for God’s sake, those who are treated the way they are treated, maybe at the hotel or any other high places, it’s because those people spend their lifetime building a certain value.

They worked the hell and sacrifices a lot of bullshits to get the kind of life they are living now. That communicates — they built that value, and now someone has to pay a price for it. Btw, that’s how the world works.

They deserve to be treated the way they are treated now, and if you are feeling jealous and think life isn't fair, then upgrade your game— work and build a value that will put you in a place to be treated the way you see how others people get treated and stop being so jealous and complain life isn't fair.

If life isn’t fair — make it fair and let things play under your rules, not anyone's rules.

Also notice that no one excludes you, it's yourself and your own mind — but that shouldn't fool you either, as the world always plays this way —

…it’s what you have and the world will alwyas treat you exactly like what you have.

The world is full of gravity itself. You love being treated in a certain way — level up your game and build a great value.

Become sooooooo! BIG that everyone recognizes your presence when you show up anywhere — that is the only secret I have learned so far!

And here is the big one;

Life is even fairer when you are the OWNER and play under your own terms — slaves' vocabulary — always reads life isn’t fair.

Know where you belong to!

G.

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