Let’s talk about thePast.

Gilda Given
3 min readMay 2, 2024
@gildagivenbooks

Every death of that which you used to be, is the new path to that which you intend to becoming.

Dear friend, the only difference between those who we call the masters and those whom we term as normal humans is that; the masters are always willing enough to learn from their own life experiences.

They are the ones who deep dive into their life experiences and find wisdom in that which they are living — that which we call life.

Big enough they are always willing to take that which they have lived like pain, heartbreak, hardship, or just depression, and turn it into wisdom so that other people can learn from them.

I understand sometimes it is truly hard to understand how life works and how crazy can sometimes life turn out to be but the deepest secret about life is that — life isn’t here to punish us but to always guide us.

If we learn to be open to it, let ourselves be introduced to the lessons, and then be willing enough to learn from that which we are living from that which we call our own life experience then life becomes easier to live.

Sharing this with you, dear friend, I want you to understand that the past shouldn’t be something to hold you back yet it should be something to learn from — something to be appreciated for making a bigger room to that which you are becoming.

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If it wasn’t for that which we have lived before, that which we call past — the life that we are living would have no meaning to be lived.

The genius Steve Jobs puts it this way; life is understood backward so in the process of living that which we believe to be true to ourselves — we always need to know that there must be death to every END: either way, the newness will never emerge in our lives.

Our only work? To LEARN and EXPAND instead of blaming, crying, or condemning as without the death of any of our past — that which we used to be — that which we get used to..

It’s hard to evolve into the version of who we truly intend or want to be.

@gildagivenbooks

Love,

Gilda :)

#SiT

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Gilda Given

Author | On a mission to help you live that which is true to yourself