Stop defeating yourself.

Gilda Given
2 min readNov 13, 2023

There are no forces neither people who ever work or can work against you other than your own thoughts. There’s no devil neither a satan or wizards who are doing anything bad to you. It’s just you and your own thoughts — your own mind.

Trust me dear friend; no one is doing anything bad to you and no one is doing anything wrong to you except you and your own mind — your own thoughts.

As hard as it may sound. That’s the reality of life.

You either know it, accept and live it, or don't and life will always find magnificent ways of showing you how exactly things are through your life experiences as things will happen and continue to happen anyway as you think.

On the other side, as a human, I know it’s so hard for you to be yourself sometimes. To be mindful of your thoughts and emotions. To think for yourself and act as to how your inner self wants you to be.

I understand how hard things might get and start to doubt yourself or criticize yourself, and sometimes think that it is them.

But what is funny is that; all those are just your thoughts. You are the only one defeating yourself with my own mind — the way you think about everything!

Insert this new realization into your life

“Once I change the way I look at things the things I look at will change too.”

Believe me; it's 100% true, as from the unconscious level of your mind, it’s your thoughts about everything that makes things look as to how they are to you now — there's nothing magical behind.

If you think there are hidden forces or people who are behind what you don’t like to experience in your life I am here to remind you that again…

There are no forces neither people who ever work or can work against you other than your own thoughts. There’s no devil neither a satan or wizards who are doing anything bad to you. It’s just you and your own thoughts — your own mind.

You are the only creator of your own life. You are the only creator of your entire life. You get to choose what you would like to invite into your life experience. Not them. Not me.

It’s all up to you dear friend; you are the only chooser.

Choose that which feels good to you.

Choose the good thoughts.

Gilda Given :)

#thinkfit

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Gilda Given

Author | On a mission to help you live that which is true to yourself