To a young individual out there.

Gilda Given
3 min readSep 24, 2024

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If you don’t like what you are living — change it.

Dear young person, I just want you to know that it’s only you who can turn your life around — unfortunately, there’s no one out there to help you — even God himself until you make a shift.

Make a shift that — your life can be changed.

That your life can be improved.

That — your life can be different or lived as to how you intended it to be.

That — your life can be more than just what you are living now especially if you are reaching for more or don’t like where you are standing now.

Make A Shift.

Trust me, dear friend, there’s more to life.

More than what we are just living, seeing, or observing.

More than what our parents lived, keep living and the society in general.

As powerful creators, we are all born to create and design life as to how we have imagined in our minds and believe that..

..things can be different and can be changed as long as we have set our minds to believe and prepare ourselves for that shift and not questioning how, when, or who.

We also need to understand that the life that we are living is a total creation of our own thoughts and we can change our thoughts at any time if we don’t like what we are currently living.

We can always turn things around at any time just with the right thinking and by changing the self-concept that we carry about ourselves instead of blaming or condemning that things aren’t fair enough.

I believe that all of us have created more improvements in our minds than we could ever imagine (that which we want) and that which we call God can always guide us if we are truly ready to live that which we truly want and set our minds to believe that “it can be done.”

Truly the life that you are living is the total creation of your mind and once you learn to change your mindset for the better your life will be changed to the perfection of that which you are.

So — Let’s Start Here.

  1. Stop complaining, blaming, and justifying things that aren’t fair; learn to take full responsibility for your life.
  2. Stop defeating yourself; learn to let go of self-limiting beliefs and self-limiting concepts that aren’t serving you.
  3. Stop being dependent and develop a habit of self-dependency; this will help you create your own safe space to do your own things and just be yourself.
  4. Understand that you are the creator of your own entire life, and that means including the bads — no one should be blamed for how bad your life is. You created it. Now it’s time to own it.
  5. Stop holding onto your old cycles of people. It’s time to grow dear friend. So, go out of your cycle and meet new individuals; sometimes you will never find yourself until you leave or someone else leaves in your life, and if you wait until they leave — my dear… it’s painful.

Life is such delicious, don’t waste it.

It’s time to own your life young star.

I believe you can.

@gildagivenbooks

Love

Gilda :)

#SiT

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Gilda Given
Gilda Given

Written by Gilda Given

Author | On a mission to help you live that which is true to yourself

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