You can never fail by yourself.

5 min readDec 9, 2023

True independence is you being yourself — with everyone around you and in every situation in your life.

Dear friend; I just want to remind you that..

You can never fail by being yourself.
No one has ever failed by being themselves.
No matter how things may look;
Being yourself will always benefit you.
You have to be yourself.
You should always be yourself.

And it doesn’t matter how things may tend to be — you have to stick to the fact that being yourself it’s something that truly matters to you and it gives the Universe an opportunity to open up for you even more in different dimensions.

From my own personal experience

I have been around people, especially in the workplaces and I have seen how hard it is for them to just be themselves and the moment they fail to do so what follows is that they try to copy or act in a certain way — or as to how others want them to so that they can be liked. Be approved. Be appreciated. Be supported. Or whatsoever.

They will do whatever they can to fit into what they call “something standards” without knowing and noticing that all the feelings of worthiness can only be found within themselves and there is no need for anyone to act in a certain way to get the approval of that which is within themselves.

And what is the end goal?

They end up disliking themselves. Being dependent upon others to feel good. Not approving or trusting themselves for who they are.

They can’t act their way unless someone is there to tell them what the right thing to do or not to do.

They can’t make their own decisions or choices either go to that which they truly want without the attention or the approval of others.

It is just that they are totally losing themselves and killing their inner guidance within them.

I also understand that sometimes things like that have to happen so that we can get to know ourselves and what we truly want or take that as a lesson for us to grow yet some never learn and end up torturing themselves even for a lifetime

If you don’t know or if you aren’t sure that you are always supposed to be yourself in any situation or any place or what!

I would like you to get to know this..

Being yourself not only will put you close to your true self (the self that always inspires you, cares for you, loves and appreciates you) but also it will open new doors for you to meet those who are truly meant for you (the good cooperative components).

Those who are meant to travel with you alongside your life journey — so, instead of you losing yourself and trying so hard to please others or act in a certain way to get the approval of those who aren’t even meant for you — you will be so busy building yourself to the perfection of that which you truly are.

Being yourself is truly attractive :)

It’s attractive to yourself and to those around you as you are portraying the power of that which is true within each and everyone around you — of which 90% of those you know don’t have that.

Something that which is true to itself is always attractive to others. Look at flowers.

A rose is just a rose and a jasmine is just a jasmine. A rose doesn’t try to be so jasmine and a jasmine doesn’t try to be so rose and guess what – they’re all attractive in their own way; always.

You know why?

Because that which is true to itself always portrays the true nature of who we truly are.

That which is God in nature.

That which is love. That which is clarity. That which is sureness. That which is confident and as humans it’s our true nature to always cultivate those things within us and not outside ourselves.

Being yourself always attracts the right things.

Being yourself not only will serve you a purpose to that which you are and that which you have intended to be but also it will attract the right people at the right time, the right events with the right situations and you will be so glad that you had stood in a position of that which you truly are.

It’s true that if you aren’t true to yourself you always tend to pretend to be that which you aren’t and in that act of pretending you allow the energy of those who act like you in that pretended mode to come close to you and become part of your life experience.

That means no one is true to anyone and both of you are just feeding untruths to each other.

And trust me the relationship that is born in such kind of environment always tends to get toxic and you will never like it as days gone.

It’s full of neediness. Full of fear. Full of anger. And nothing good tends to grow in such kind of relationship rather than blame, bitterness, and insults.

Being true to yourself is heaven and truly that’s true independence.

It’s that which you are always intending to be.

It’s that which you should always supposed to be.

It is that which you wish to be even if you don’t know.

It’s that which feels good.

You should always be yourself no matter how the world around you tends to be. No matter how the world around you treats you.

Be that which you are.
Be that which you truly are.

And then; the God within you (your inner self) will always be supportive of you, appreciating you, guiding you, approving you, inspiring you, and loving you for who you truly are — and that’s true worthiness.

You can’t find it from others even if you spend 1,000 years on Earth.

Just know that true approval only comes from within and you will surely be free once you get to know that.

You should always be yourself. Even if the whole world labels it weird. Even if the whole world is against you. Just be yourself. You will thank yourself later.